Stories

When Richmond Opened Its Sanctuary DoorsBefore marriage equality became settled law in Virginia, a church wedding for two people of the same sex carried a particular kind of risk. It could be…
Lavender, belonging, and the queer meaning of a Virginia farm stayA lavender farm stay in Virginia can offer far more than a quiet weekend among fragrant rows. For LGBTQ+ travelers, the landscape may become a place to…
When Your Spouse Comes Out As NonbinaryA long-term marriage carries shared routines, family history, financial commitments, social circles, and private language that may have developed over many…
Five welcoming Virginia bookstores for queer author eventsA good bookstore can be much more than a place to buy a novel. For LGBTQ+ readers, it can provide a room where queer stories receive serious attention, local…
Planning a Covenant-Style Marriage in VirginiaThe logic behind planning a marriage under Virginia’s covenant marriage law begins with an important correction: Virginia does not currently offer covenant…
What I Learned At My First Leather Bar Event In DCI had passed the leather bar many times before I finally walked inside. From the sidewalk, it looked like any other Washington, DC nightlife spot: a familiar…
Finding a queer-affirming financial planner for your family’s futureChoosing a financial planner is a personal decision for any household, but LGBTQ+ families may need a professional who understands legal, cultural, and family…
A Trans Athlete Finds Her Place Under Virginia’s New Sports RulesFor one Virginia high school athlete, a place on the team now comes with a rulebook that reaches far beyond the gym, the locker room, and the scoreboard. The…
How To Celebrate Pride At Home With 12 Queer Virginia Movie PicksA living-room movie night can make Pride feel personal, especially when the screening reflects the places, histories, and communities close to home. With a…
A guide to LGBTQ+ friendly tattoo shops in Richmond and Virginia BeachChoosing a tattoo studio is a personal decision, especially for queer, trans, and nonbinary clients who want to feel respected from the first consultation…